I am not participating in Grey Day.  For one thing, I'm a free speech extremist, and believe that it's impractical and silly to try to own ideas and words.  Secondly, it's the first anniversary of the death of my sister Lydia, God rest her soul.  It's a day of anti-mourning, of celebrating her life.  I refuse to be grey. 
  
 
Yitgadal v'yitgadash, sh'mei rabah...